.Tuesday, March 31, 2009 ' 1:45 pm Y
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moo's sister invited us to her wedding dinner's food tasting at rasa sentosa! so i met moo in the evening straight after his lessons and off we took the mrt to habourfront. so anyways to digress, i realised im greatly affected by the bloody expensive public transport because i top up $10 every 2 to 3 days. wth right. and i dont even travel much.
anyways! to sum up the dining experience, rasa really was a disappointment. food was nothing special at all unless you consider having bakkwa on the cold dish as erm special?
most of the food was damn salty and the ee fu mian tastes like maggie mee. my only favourite was the dessert - dont know what hashima thing w dont know what got longan and red dates. and the service was comparable to some pizza hut/kfc kind of service. both the waiter and the waitress were a clueless pair. seems like they've not gone thru any training at all. what the hell right. so disappointing. its a nice and romantic place in general but the restaurant spoils it all cause the food sucks.
.Saturday, March 28, 2009 ' 10:03 pm Y
hand in hand we go
had lessons in the morning and finally handed up our last project!!! wheee! so its revision and exams on the 27th apr (same as moo moo!) and i can look forward to a pending holiday ((=
met moo moo at 5pm and i went for driving at eunos while moo moo went to sim lim. WHEE my driving is so far so good. except the slope in the circuit. i still cant pull the handbrake i have no idea why. shit.
anyways, met moo at sim lim after driving and guess what?!
MOO MOO BOUGHT A CAMMIE FOR ME!!!!!!!!!!! HAHAHA. THANK YOU MOO MOO!!! he has been looking at cams w me but it didnt occur to me he might get one for me ((=
hehehe thanks moo moo... i love the cam so much! and love you loads n loads too!
moo moo got pissed w the sales person selling him the cam. and anyways, to cut the unhappy long story short, DONT GO "CAMERATALK" ON THE 2ND FLOOR OF SIM LIM. THEY ARE NOT V ETHICAL. WILL TRY TO SELL/GIVE U 2ND STUFFS AND RIP U OFF.
so there. dont go to that shop ok?
so anyways!!! moo moo wanted to have pizza hut we went to bugis street looking for pizza hut, but alas there was no pizza hut, so we went PS instead! and once we got settled in pizza hut we started playing w the cam and was still busy with it till our food came. hahaha.
went back to moo moo's house and we fell asleep again after listening to mrbrown's podcasts and playing w facebook. geesh. we're a couple of sleepyheads. hahaa.
then moo moo rode me home around 3 plus and you know what!!! when i reached home i saw a baby cockroach near my shoe rack and i very calmly went to look for the insecticide but couldnt find it and i remembered my pesticide for plants and i took it and KILLED THE BABY COCKROACH!! WHEEEEEEEEEE!! BUT THEN I REALISED IT CAN FLY SO IT SCARED THE HELL OUT OF ME FIRST. im sucha saddist but im so happy it died. i slept v peacefully after that ((=
so anyways, here some pics we took w the new cammie ((=
and of course i had to used my old cammie to take my new cammie! ((=
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once again, thank you moo moo for the birthday pressie, i like it very very much ((= love u loads!
we will take more pictures!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
.Thursday, March 26, 2009 ' 11:05 pm Y
hand in hand we go
i found this in the pack of bak kwas:
SO CUTE RIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
love loves ~
.Monday, March 23, 2009 ' 7:39 pm Y
hand in hand we go
had tuition as usual in the morning and met moo moo for lunch!
moo moo was so sweet, he bought me my favouritest mcgriddles and a packet of vapour drops for my throat! much loves moo! ((=
we had our lunch at one of the voidecks and then sat there to chat for a while before moo sent me to the train station because i had to go for driving lessons ((=
it was a simple happy lunch spent w moo.
While it is faith that makes all things possible, it is love that makes all things easy.
- Evan H. Hopkins
.Saturday, March 21, 2009 ' 3:07 pm Y
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21.03.09
WE WORE THE SAME CLOTHES AS WE DID IN THAT PICTURE ON THE LEFT SIDE BAR. HAHAHA. CAN YOU SPOT THE DIFFERENCE THOUGH? (besides the pose la although i know our pose is almost always the same one. hahaha.)
anyways, had school in the morning and as usual this sem, im not bothered to bring my notes not because i havent printed them but i left ALL my notes in mc and am too lazy to lug them home. lesson was as usual too, funny and interesting because of geoffery. he's the most wonderfullest teacher i've ever had!
anyways, after lessons i went home to rest for a bit because i was kind of sick. started sneezing like crazy a few days back and then booo there comes the sorethroat and cough and runny nose. i think i caught the bug from my student. %^&#@^* and im afraid i might pass it to my other students, BUT THEN i refuse to call in sick because i hate makeup lessons. haha. i very selfish hor. oops. i hope none of them catches the flu bug, otherwise i would feel so guilty =(
anyways, met moo at 5.30pm in the evening to go for my driving lesson at eunos (wth so far right) which was at 6pm! we were supposed to meet at 5pm but then i overslept and moo forgot abt the time while studying. haha. so we rushed and rushed, and decided that it was too late to take the train thus we took a cab down.
and still! i was late. hahaha. for about 10 mins? argh. anyways, i had to go eunos for driving lessons because my instructor booked a circuit slot for me at ubi driving centre. argh. wells, lesson that day was a disaster because everything sucked except the S-course. and my instructor kept telling me to go gym because i had difficulty pulling the hand gear. he even advised me to change to auto because im under 50kg. WHAT RUBBISH IS THAT. many pple under 50kg have passed the exam. and i refuse to change. i suck at driving, but im gonna practice till i can pass. humph. *growls*
anyways, after the horrible experience in the circuit, met up with moo again who waited for me at the coffeeshop nearby. thank you moo moo for accompanying me ((=
the place was ulu like shit and we walked and walked and finally saw a busstop!!! had to go toh payoh to take a bus to vivo because there was no buses going anywhere near vivo much less going directly there.
so we had dinner at kim gary hk resturant because the food there is cheap and nice!!! well most of it la. i had twin sauce chicken chop spag and moo had this curry cheese fish fillet w rice. then we had this wanton side order thing which was just ok. moo had a coconut mango drink which was nice! it was milky milky and mangoish. i had this hot green tea w lemon and honey which i think i could replicate it on my own i suppose. hahaha.
by the time we finished dinner, the shops were all closing alr. so we went back to bb where moo parked his bike at my house and we went to his house for a movie! watched starsky and hutch. hehe i like owen wilson!! so anyways, it was a long day and we were tired moos then we fell asleep for a while before moo sent me home ((=
p.s: i've decided to use bigger font size and its easier to read now!!! ((=
.Friday, March 20, 2009 ' 2:45 pm Y
hand in hand we go
being in a relationship for the past 20 months definitely has taught me many things, particularly love alone.
people always ask what is love? how in world do you know if you're in love. what is love? what is true love?
to me i think love is just simply love alone. love has no conditions. if you love, you love. if you dont, you dont.
if you love a person, you go the extra mile to do extra things, put in extra efforts because you want to. because it makes you happy to see the other person happy, to want to love the other person, because you just love him/her.
it doesnt matter what you get back in return unless you're talking about getting back negative responses.
if you love a person, you put in the extra effort because you love, the other person will do the same in return to show his/her love. and we support and encourage each other this way. pls correct me if i am wrong. or does it not work this way?
or does it work this way instead... if you love a person, you put in the extra effort because you love, the other person should show appreciation, but it doesnt matter if he/she does not do the same in return to show his/her love? is this true love from the other person? show appreciation, but is not able to return that love? i doubt so.
when you love the person, you dont just go through the motion, you do it because you want to, not because someone told you to. if you love the person, you will not forget to show love and take care of your partner's feelings. you will not forget, you will not neglect. if you did, your love isnt true. you will get tired from doing it because it didnt come from your heart. you're doing it because you have to.
people like that have excuses for everything that they do.
love and trust are among virtues for a healthy relationship. and of course, love is the base of all virtues to follow, so if your love isnt true, dont expect to be trusted. love isnt selfish, but once you find yourself being selfish, taking care of your own needs only, your own feelings, not bothering to care for your other half, your love isnt true.
love is just simply love, love has no conditions, love isnt selfish, love is doing things because you want to not because you want to get something in return. love is simply love. if you love, you love, there isnt reasons for it..
love isnt to be seen nor heard. love isnt just saying i love you, love isnt just seeing the words i love you on sms nor hear the words before i go to bed. it is feeling it from my heart and returning it from my heart. doing it from my heart. love uses the heart to communicate, not your 5 senses. it doesnt work that way.
.Tuesday, March 17, 2009 ' 11:27 pm Y
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Found this while reading thru my old emails... i think its pretty encouraging. i admit, i am a horrible girlfriend. Darling has been patient with me and im thankful for that. I'll try to be a better girlfriend ok?
but then of course, it takes two to clap.. right?
10 STEPS TO Be A Better Couple
1. Be realistic about each other.
1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn ur partner into something he or she is not. Let's face it, guys-there's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and even she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break and understand that her physical appearance is NOT going to change overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so u're gonna have to do with what ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u are. There is more to ur partner than what meets the eye.
2. Always talk things out.
Now guys, I know this is not ur fave pastime or mode of resolving issues, but u know what? This works with the gals. Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to xpress urself better so that ur partner undrstands what u're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When u stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.
3. Do stuff together.
Make an effort to do t hings together. Do some sports or involve urselves in some shared activities; something both of u enjoy or are interested in. It could be as simple as watching movies together, or jus strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccor with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if ur gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for 'that sort of activities' instead. If u're spending more time with ur friends rather than with ur partner, it's a warning sign that u're drifting apart!!!
4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the 'The_Rock' print, u shouldn't kick up much of a fuss if he asks u to keep ur room tidy... There's gotta be a little giving and taking in a relationship, so learn to meet each other halfway.
5. Show ur love
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume everynow and then, even if u have been together for 5years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear ( like for decoration purposes ), buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him...so he knows u can still be romantic and loving despite having been together for quite a while.
6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is u love to laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks if its funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.
7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. Gals..don't bring up the happy things about u and ur ex to ur guy, it would jus make him jealous or unhappy. And guys, don't talk about the happy times that u had with ur ex or mention about her in ur every other sentence as it would make ur gal feel un-happy and she might think that u saying all this b'cos u are gonna get back with ur ex or not interested in her anymore.
8. Sit on ur jealousy.
All of us go thru' spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If u're gonna go through ur partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, u know something is wrong - with u!!! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads thru' the relationship before finall y killing it. Trust ur partner; love has to have trust in it.
9. Keep ur commitments to each other.
If ur partner is standing u up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take u to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises u can't keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.
10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him that he has the biceps of a fly~! When we say 'be honest', we mean expressing ur feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When u're hurt, say so, and when u're angry, tell him/her, w/o getting hysterical. If u can't be honest with ur partner, who can u be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!
.Monday, March 16, 2009 ' 8:35 pm Y
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pro:
1) more pay
2) good experience
3) good for resume
con:
1) less time
2) more stress
3) cant do what i like to do anymore
4) might not be able to go for trip
i hope i my job interview will not be successful tomorrow so i will not have to fret if i should accept the job or not =((
.Sunday, March 15, 2009 ' 10:58 pm Y
hand in hand we go
school really sucks without the company of jiajia and shihui. i've become sucha klutz without the two of you. i have ZERO motivation to study. i dont bother bringing the right set of notes (or i dont even bother to bring anymore), never bothered to sign attendence anymore (tho i finally did last week to sign for all lectures) and i dont really give two hoots about projects anymore. i have become the ultimate slacker of all times.
hehe i just love my girls so much! shihui just smsed me this:
mad your bday coming wor . Pick a date we go out celeb tgthr! =)
i replied:
Hehe Okie! Me will choose a date soon! See you soon soon soon k! =)
shihui:
haha. remember to choose and message everybody and think of what present you want ok! see you soon too.. :*
exactly what she said, loves to call me MAD, typo spacing error, short forms and all. haha ((=
it was just a simple sms but it did a wonderful job showing me how much she cares and it really brightened my day and friends who bothers about how you feel and truly care are hard to come by, ((= thank you girl! missed you so much! love you loads! and i hope to see all of you soon!! ((=
being in a relationship is a funny thing. its all about love, yet its more than just love alone.
.Saturday, March 14, 2009 ' 9:56 pm Y
hand in hand we go
havent been exactly in my best of mood recently.
been having disturbing dreams. i really wish i could STOP HAVING DREAMS FOR ONCE IN MY LIFE because they really disturb my sleep i cant sleep well at all. i dream of killing and running away from worms and cockroaches, pple chasing me, kidnapping me, exgfs snatching bf away, friends dying, me quarreling with my mum, quarreling with gavian and whatnots. super duper bloody disturbing ok. i frequently wake up feeling angry, sad, crying and scared, but yet relieved because it was all just a dream.
how to start a good day rolling out of the right side of the bed when i dont wake up from a good dream?
.Wednesday, March 11, 2009 ' 11:19 pm Y
hand in hand we go
went gai gai-ing w dearest jiajia and shopped for only a mere 3 hours and thats it, we were so tired alr. haha. mine feet was hurting dont know why and hers was aching. shit we are becoming like some old women alr. i know why... must be we dont exercise. haha.
well anyways, it was time well spent ((= i bought a dress, a blouse, a pair of socks for my flats and a formal skirt. jia bought a new bag (as usual). haha.
i brought my cam along to take some pics but then i forgot about it. its been so long since i last went on a date with wjj! haha i still rem how often we do that while we were single and the rest were attached.
i had fun w you dear!! MUST MEET UP W THE REST SOON ((=
MY BIRTHDAY IS COMING PPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ((=
IT IS MY 2nd 21st I INSIST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
*lalalalalaalaaaaaaa* =P
the 11th of march rings a sad note in my head. and is proven its aint a good day.
.Monday, March 09, 2009 ' 10:39 pm Y
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i found a really really good site that has asztremeli kutez kitti peekturez and and and kaptionz!!!!!!!
(http://www.icanhascheezburger.com/)
SUPER CUTE OK!!!!
i copied till page 19 and there are 411 pages to go. i sewiously cannutz getz enuffs of theze fluffie kutie piez. hahahahaha. sorweh, i got influwenzed by the captionz. hahahaha. okok i shall stop it. hahahahaha.
whee. anyways, i cant wait to go gai gai with jia on wed. wjj dont suddenly ps me ok!!!!!! i havent been gai gai-ing since dec. i cant believe it. me the one who has all the time in the world has not gone gai gai-ing for 3 months.
and and and!! i drove in heavy rain today during lesson!! hahahahaha. t'was quite fun. hahahhahahaa. couldnt hear anything my instructor said. hahahahahaha. only left/right. ahhahahaha.
anyways, i met moo moo after his lessons for a tiny while today and we went to buy sweepstake from this guy in a wheelchair near the interchange. (try try luck mah!!! GOOD LUCK MOO MOOO!!!) and beside him was this irritating insurance agent. and he was trying to sell us his insurance plans yada yada and when we dont seem that interested he tried using a different tactic to get to know us, like asking how old are we. he thought moo was 20 and i was 12? 16? 17? 19? i dont know if he was acting stupid or what. but 12 is seriously kua zhang. 19 still ok la.. faints.
so anyways, me is going to zelebratex moi 2nd 21st birthday in april ((=
HOW EXCITING. (*grumbles)
.Sunday, March 08, 2009 ' 9:13 pm Y
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guys who goes around flirting with girls in school/work place/anywhere/anytime are plain disgusting and desperate.
guys who already have a girlfriend but yet goes around knowing girls on friendster/facebook is bloody disgusting and shallow.
anyone who cheats on their partner is a worthless piece of cowdung to me. being a cowdung is bad enough, being a worthless cowdung is pathetic. if you happen to be my friend, then i probably dont hold you in high regard.
and then there are the desperate kind of girls who are ready to sleep with anyone, change 10 thousand boyfriend and sleep with every single one of them. hello, why dont you just go sell your backside, at least still can earn some money out of it while being cheap and slutty right? ((=
.Friday, March 06, 2009 ' 6:20 pm Y
hand in hand we go
moo moo is the best!!
i am going over to play game and watch movie laters!!! wheeee!
and moo moo has been racing machoo (my cat in pet society) to earn coins so we can buy her a bed!!!!
the weather is so darn hot today. ARGH.
sighs. sometimes i think im really so difficult to please, i get irritated even with myself. sighs i resolve to be more patient w moo moo and shower him more love!!
p.s: moo moo thanks for trying your best not to neglect me even though u're really busy with school these few weeks. i love you loads n loads!!
.Thursday, March 05, 2009 ' 11:43 pm Y
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eh.. whats up with the weather?
rain shine rain shine rain then shine again.
reminds me of a garfield comic strip i saw on the newspaper a days back. super funny. i love love garfield comics!!
anyways, whats up with the weather?
argh. either the weather is making me sick or my wisdom tooth is. i feel like a fever is about to come. to top it off, the extra tooth caused an ulcer on my gums all the way back and its so painful. its difficult to even open my mouth. ouchhh.
argh. im extremely tired i have no idea why. each time i pass by my bed i just feel lying on it and snooze away.
hmm to digress a little, i wonder if there are aliens in the universe. im pretty sure there is. hahaha. i dont believe we're the only living things in this vast universe. maybe aliens dont need oxygen or water to live leh? maybe they need er.. carbon dioxide or maybe fire to live? why MUST they need water and oxygen to live? things on earth needs them does not mean that aliens need them too right?
ok la.. kinda dreaming alr. alrights. goodnites pple.
.Tuesday, March 03, 2009 ' 5:05 pm Y
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i am quite certain that my wisdom tooth has finally decided to grow.
wheee.. dont think i've accquired any more wisdom since its growth, but its definitely making me feel uncomfortable, achy gums and constantly feeling that i've got some food stuck at the back of my teeth.
argh, ive been procrastinating the trip to the dentist for ten thousand years, so i guess i'll be forced to visit the dentist this year for sure if my wisdom tooth decides to grow at an awkward angle. =((((((((((((((((((
this is as depressing as getting chicken pox.
wells, im kinda in a dilemma.
met ms soh (LOVE YA GIRL!!!) at bb for lunch today and she asked me if its really so difficult to secure a job now?
and then i pondered over it and told her no, actually i think it isnt difficult. its only difficult to get something you enjoy doing.
so my dilemma is.... should i look for a full time job or not?
im getting along fine without a full-time-slog-your-heart-out job because my stipends from teaching piano and the daily tuition is keeping me moderately fed and happy.
i enjoy what im doing now. in fact i LOVE IT. i love teaching piano. and i actually kindof enjoy going for tuition every morning because my student can be quite endearing if he wants to. and it makes me happy. (on a side note: it makes me happy too when i walk through the voidecks of my student's place and see ten thousand cats roaming and mewing at me.)
and then there is this freedom factor that no full time job can provide. i am happy being as free as a bird. go for lessons, come home, play w machoo, disturb pappy, go teach piano, sleep, eat blah blah.
but then again, a full time job offers me more monetary fulfillment as well as putting my dip/degree into good use.
so how. bum away or go find a job? sighs.
and if i find a job right now before may, i might not be able to go on a trip with darling. and all my plans will be ruined!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (that is unless i am able to find a company that'll allow me take leave la!)
sighs.
wisdom tooth grow alr also no use. i still cant decide what to do.
p.s: i feel like eating oneh oneh.
