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.Friday, March 20, 2009 ' 2:45 pm Y

hand in hand we go

being in a relationship for the past 20 months definitely has taught me many things, particularly love alone.

people always ask what is love? how in world do you know if you're in love. what is love? what is true love?

to me i think love is just simply love alone. love has no conditions. if you love, you love. if you dont, you dont.

if you love a person, you go the extra mile to do extra things, put in extra efforts because you want to. because it makes you happy to see the other person happy, to want to love the other person, because you just love him/her.

it doesnt matter what you get back in return unless you're talking about getting back negative responses.

if you love a person, you put in the extra effort because you love, the other person will do the same in return to show his/her love. and we support and encourage each other this way. pls correct me if i am wrong. or does it not work this way?

or does it work this way instead... if you love a person, you put in the extra effort because you love, the other person should show appreciation, but it doesnt matter if he/she does not do the same in return to show his/her love? is this true love from the other person? show appreciation, but is not able to return that love? i doubt so.

when you love the person, you dont just go through the motion, you do it because you want to, not because someone told you to. if you love the person, you will not forget to show love and take care of your partner's feelings. you will not forget, you will not neglect. if you did, your love isnt true. you will get tired from doing it because it didnt come from your heart. you're doing it because you have to.

people like that have excuses for everything that they do.

love and trust are among virtues for a healthy relationship. and of course, love is the base of all virtues to follow, so if your love isnt true, dont expect to be trusted. love isnt selfish, but once you find yourself being selfish, taking care of your own needs only, your own feelings, not bothering to care for your other half, your love isnt true.

love is just simply love, love has no conditions, love isnt selfish, love is doing things because you want to not because you want to get something in return. love is simply love. if you love, you love, there isnt reasons for it..

love isnt to be seen nor heard. love isnt just saying i love you, love isnt just seeing the words i love you on sms nor hear the words before i go to bed. it is feeling it from my heart and returning it from my heart. doing it from my heart. love uses the heart to communicate, not your 5 senses. it doesnt work that way.